Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / February 2005

wasn't that nice of her

     http://www.tallahassee.com/mld/tallahassee/news/local/10829009.htm
     'Fathers' locked in legislative loophole
     Men must support kids proved not to be theirs
     By Aetna Smith

I was able to read a handful of responses the other day in regards to
my questions for the men.  Before I take the time to read the 100+
responses, I wanted to share a few things I learned ... some thanks to
the people who replied and some just because of my own personal

someone in this group is stalking her boyfriends daughter in real life ,
so i just thought i'd tell you to quit it

Update with my bf situation...
Just as he starts making moves, things start happening... The stbx developed
a serious health problem in last few weeks (still waiting to find out more),
and he discovered that his daughter started getting very moody, and suicidal

I am looking for some specific guidelines on how much Child Support is fair.
I know every situations is different but want to get a ball park idea for a
man earning 30k with 2 children living in the state of Kansas.
Are there any charts on the web or commonly used formulas?

Prosecutor's child support force nabs first 'deadbeat'
http://www.bentoncourier.com/articles/2005/02/04/news/17bnews.txt
By Jillian McGehee Fry
Courier Staff

Atheists are sinners by definition. God's very first commandment was
that you believe in him and no other. He asks this simple thing of
you, through his Book and his followers, and you refuse. This is your
sin, and it is why many god-fearing Americans dislike atheists.

I see on here, and hear in personal discussions, plenty of men describing
with incredibile regret the mistakes they made that led to their divorces.
However there seems to be very little gender parity on this matter. Most
women claim the divorce was because they were "abused", ...

I tune into this every day and have learned alot. There are
Psychologists/Counsellors who take the questions from the callers and
offer very sound advice ; many people call in about to enter a divorce ,
or, who are in the process.  You may find this beneficial to you.

It was in the heat of passion after I came home late from Hooters. It
would never happen again she's my boo y'all!
http://chucklysaght.envy.nu/MyDailyRant.html

A Virginia Family Bill of Rights
http://www.washtimes.com/commentary/20050205-101557-3756r.htm
Bold legislation is being introduced that will put the Commonwealth of
Virginia on the cutting edge of the worldwide campaign to reverse the

If you remarry after divorce, move to a new home if at all possible and get a
fresh start..  Ex-spouses can ruin new marriages.

I have a great idea..since outsourcing is the "in" thing, I think I may
outsource my intimate needs...I haven't any affection from my wife for
years..
It'll give the oldest profession in the world, a more mainstream term

Was listening to a radio talk show yesterday and the guests were
Jennifer Baumgardner and Amy Richards, authors of "Grassroots: A Field
Guide to Feminist Activism".  When asked about child custody and why
it's routinely awarded to women over men one of them answered "Because