Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / April 2005

Woman in custody after husband is shot
By Susan Weich
Of the Post-Dispatch
04/29/2005

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I'm wondering what kind of a position i'm in. I'm getting a divorce
and I have a profitable company but its 100% based on my consulting
work. Do I owe her 50% shares? It has no assets and is only just my
hourly billing. Basically I see it as the same as having a job. I

isn't there a web site associated with this group? I have a client who
needs it...

Seeking your thoughts on this.

The divorce is now finalized but just before it was, I had my daughter for 1 1/2
weeks while my wife [now X!!!] left for a 'business' trip to NYC. I found out
just after the ink was dry that she left the country for a vacation, not the NYC
trip like she told me, which is why I ...

No wonder you're divorced. You're full of hate. I wish no part of your
disease. There are things I'd like to change but I'm happy. I hate no one.
You hate me because I refuse to hate. So sad that your energies are spent on
the propagation of hate.

I won't say the "m" word (marriage, ok I said it), but anyone have any thing to
add to this list of important rules for a good marriage?
- Be supportive of your spouse.
That doesn't mean you have to go bankrupt because they have a shopping,

I'm looking for a good forum/discussion group for support and ideas on
going through divorce. I've found some, but the posts are infrequent or
old or difficult to use. I'd like to get involved in some current
discussion. Does anyone know of something like this?

Okay, this one might be a bit long, so I thank you for your patience...
there's a bit of background to the issue (isn't there always in a
divorce?)
Facts: married 4.5 years, no kids, no joint debt (all credit cards are

Community property in california is when a married partner purchases
property after the marriage.
Question:
If my Wife had purchased a house and the mortgage is in her's and her

I am a victim of a cheating spouse.  I know what any one of you that
feels the gut wrenching torment of suspecting that your spouse is
cheating feels like.  I also know how desperate you feel trying to find
out the truth.  I want to make available to you the methods that I used

Its funny that now, looking back at the posts and the advice on what to do
in and after divorce -  "when you get the urge to do something bad go to a
movie  or ride a bike" "take the high road" "dont let your spouse get to
you" "lucky you didnt have kids" blah blah blah. Bottom ...

It's just damned amazing how quickly it can hit.  About two days ago I
was blindsided by that crazy feeling (longing?) and wanting to find and
be with someone.  The weirdest part is that until now I've been just
fine and even happy with being so independent.  On top of that, this ...

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