Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / April 2005

This is an old email I sent to myself in Oct. of 03. I clipped out some
personal stuff, but it's a day after I went out, got shore-leave
sloshed, did some DWI-ing, was totally irresponsible, and then showed
up to work the next morning hungover on 3hrs of sleep. This was about

Dave in Lake Villa may have quoted some fundy comiz book with the
following "facts"
"The holes in a latex condom measure 5 microns in diameter. HIV
is .1 microns . Guess who wins ?  If youre putting  your faith in a

The group's getting weird again.

From time to time, people want to know about any real life divorce
support groups out there.
In browsing through the latest Meetup listings, I found that Divorce
Support is one option.  There are currently 141 groups worldwide, with

I turned 30 today. There was nobody who cared. I feel so Molly, but it still
stings. I'd cut off my arm with a nail file if it meant a second chance. I
just can't help thinking I've blown it. There's only one person whom I've
ever been close to, who gave purpose and contentment ...

I have been talking to a friend of mine about the possibility of
getting back together with my ex-wife.  We have one child and went
through a very nasty divorce in which she pretty much accused me of
being the devil.  It has been nearly 2 years after it became final and

Yet another domestic dispute turns postal as a result of destructive marital
law. The state should be held accountable for endangering children of
divorce.

Well folks, it has been some five and a half years since I joined this
group.
Lately, I find that I am repeating myself. Bound to happen. But for
the industrious, Google can do that.

A brief recap.. he's divorcing me and is now with my (former) best friend.
I have decided to leave town and have been given permission to move per the
court.  We will share custody of the kids and will take them back and forth
as needed, 180 miles.

   I was involved for a time with a man by the name of Michael  F.
O'Shaughnessy when I live in Central  New York(I lived in Morrisville, NY).
He was very handsome, and a smooth talker, we used to talk alot, and seemed
to have nice times together with me and my aged mother(I came ...

Feminist icon Andrea Dworkin dies
Simon Jeffery
Monday April 11, 2005
Andrea Dworkin, 1946-2005

hi , hi , oh gosh ,
i am like so totally excited ,
ok , ok , ok ,ok , wait ... ,
ok , now you have yer turn , n'kay ?

The court hearing was held, the divorce decree was final.
Is it irregular/irrational/unusual/something that it bugs me that no
one seems to remember, which of course makes me feel as though no one
cares either. Am I destined to be the only one on the planet to mark

What happens when you file for divorce after filing chapter 13
bankruptcy with your spouse?
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Kim/Dreamspinner3

Question...
Is it common practice to have to fill out a 51 page interrogatory
asking everything you could possibly think of (financial and
nonfinancial) ... including documentation, for 3 years?  The amount of