Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / May 2005

Hello,,,,
Gonna file REAL soon for a divorce here in NJ,,, Quesion is,,, when I
do, do I have to stick around while the divorce is going thru the
courts?

All,
I've been mentioning my middle child here a lot lately... the daughter
who was fourteen when my family entered The Divorce Hell, and the same
one with whom I had such a troubled relationship for several years.

The path to love and happiness, is really not outside,
it's born from truth & honesty, and not within a lie.
It grows within the feelings, that centers in your heart,
it feeds on trust & loyalty, and does not tear apart.

Anyone know anything about My X [ or anyone's X for that matter ] having his
gf stay over the night while the kids are in the house ?
I am in Ct.
When she figures out that he is what he is, she will leave opening the space

"Verily, verily I say unto you; there are many, many paths in this forest,
but only a few will get you where you really want to be..."   (BH)
Also, under Tools, Options. Maintenance in OE, see what it says thinks the
current path is (don't change it though).

Just had a long and very candid conversation with my wife. We discussed
our hopes for our marriage and our needs and in the end I asked her
very directly but not angrily if she was in or she was out. As I have
suspected for some time, she very directly answered that she has chosen

Woman sues Yahoo for Internet Nude Photos's
http://www.wftv.com/news/4539709/detail.html
Apparently the guy who took and published her photos did nothing
illegal and cannot be prosecuted even though his actions resulting in

I am new to this group and I am sorry to say that I am here. I am now
getting a divorce and was wondering if any one knew what no fault state is.
My understanding is that what property and or money accumulated in the
marriage is divided. 50-50. Minus the debt that was accumulated ...

Got a good start today, got up early, got some work done.
Took the kids over to my wife's house to spend the day. My oldest
daughter (who lives with my wife) has just gotten back from a trip and
I was looking forward to asking her about it - but she was in a bad

X-no-archives: yes
Since the general suggestion seems to be try to nail down a separation
agreeement before things get ugly, I floated a trial balloon today.
Gave my wife an idea about our overall net worth (which surprised me as

Since the general suggestion seems to be try to nail down a separation
agreeement before things get ugly, I floated a trial balloon today.
Gave my wife an idea about our overall net worth  and how much equity

We have a poster who recently started x-no archiving his posts. This
is actually a very good thing to do in his situation. He has even
made it very easy in some of them for people to see that they're
not archived by putting it in the titles of his posts (I hate the

I'm new here. Can anyone help with the 'signs' that your wife is
probably going to file for divorce (even if she says that's not what
she's thinking).
I think I saw a post about this but I can't find it now. One of the

I'm going to e-mail this to every ex-gf I've ever had.  "See?  I was
the normal one in our relationship."  LOL!  Oh, yeah, that'll endear me
to them.  :-p
http://tinyurl.com/7a45u