Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / June 2005

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I'm in the throes of finalizing, drawing up the papers after 2.5yrs of
piddling, and ex & I have already worked out the details. In my mind,
we don't need a lawyer or a court order or any legal action whatsoever.

Ok i know this girl a friend of mine been married six times. Ok it
pretty much goes like this. She got married the first time right after
high school. It lasted about 1 year. She filed for divorce because he
was unloving so she got remarried to her 2nd husband who was more loving

OK, these are small and petty things:
Ex provides summer calendar of son's activities and time with me and
time with ex, but ex's notation is now "J/T" for he and the wife
instead of just "J" for him.

Feminism and right-wing conservatives are in direct opposition with each
other.
Given a choice between the two, I am a recent convert to conservative
politics.

I filed in Sept. 2003 for divorce from my ex. We made 6 court appearenced
where nothing was decided. At the first one the judge said my ex (he had
moved out) had to start paying child support but left it to the attny. My ex
gave a pay stub with no overtime and no one looked at ...

Men,
Stay single and enjoy your freedom and never jeopardize it. That
means having no long-term relationship with any American female.
American women are sexually plundered. They are not worthy of

Feminism should be banned as a hate inspired movement. Based on lies and
half-truths it seeks to treat all men as evil and all women as benevolent.

My wife and I are splitting amicably (so far). We both probably qualify
for a free subsidized lawyer because of our low incomes this year or we
could each go get a $200 - $300/hr lawyer. I think she will go the

My girl friend is seeking a joint simple dissolution from her husband,
but the only issue is the requirement that their gross income (before
taxes) can not exceed 35K. How strigent of a requirement is this, and
is proof of income required, or is it just a matter of them atesting to

Military divorces rise sharply
http://www.indystar.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20050608/NEWS06/506080462/1012
{EXCERPT} Indianapolis Star, IN - 11 hours ago, By Gregg Zoroya. The
number of active-duty soldiers getting divorced has soared since the

divorced. today. final.
thoughts:
saw crying women in court. afraid of their ex-husbands lurking around
the kids. scamming lawyers... 'uhm, the paper Y/W/G I don't know, don't

My ex and i filed jointly on our taxes as our divorce has still not gone
thru. My income was small (12,000). His was like 85,000. I paid the mortgage
which gave gave us a 2200 additional refund but i am wondering if i am
entitled to part of his refund as we are still married legally ...

Thank you Elizabeth Fry Society. Thank you Sylvie Bordelais. Thank you Louis
Morissette. You're are all quite wonderful.
Thank you for your outstanding contributions to society.

Betrayal, "Disloyalty to someone who loves you."  She betrayed me.
She made wedding vows to me and she betrayed them.  
From the very beginning she was having an affair with another guy, hid
it from me, and lied to me about it.  Ultimately she confessed it to

We have yet to tell the kids about our decision to divorce but it looks
like it won't be possible for either of us to move out for at least
another month, maybe two due to financial issues. Is it better to leave