Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / July 2005

It is true and at the moment I am dating a woman who is 35. I m 20.
But she does not believe me. She has a son 3 yrs younger. We have been
dating for a month but she seems to be not willing to keep our
relationship. I think I will lose her.What should I do? It is very hard

My wife and I were gifted money for a down payment from her parents.  They
are not sure if the check was written to her or to someone else.  I'm
thinking it was probably written to a bank or who knows.  It sure wasn't
written to me :-)   Its a lame ploy for them to nickle and dime ...

BlankWell, it's been a year now since my divorce from my ex of 11 years.  I spent the entire year with someone else because I was so afraid of being alone.  Since I was 15 years old, I've never been alone.  Now all I want is to be alone.  The guy I've been seeing asked me to ...

I've always been pro-marriage. I've always been against divorce, to the
point I've been willing to suffer many years of pain and grief over our
non-existent relationship, constantly praying for her, praying for a
solution to her aloofness and coldness, her dishonesty and ...

You may email me at: altyn555@hotmail.com  
Thanks for your suppoprt.

Next week is my vacation and Linda will be coming down here this time. So I
doubt you all will be seeing much of me for a couple weeks. Its just a one week
vacation but she'll be here for two.
This'll be the first time since 2001 that I haven't gone to NY for vacation.

can anyone give me some of their experiences when they
went before a judge and their wives were asking for
spousal support and attorney fees ?

I have a friend that has a few children from a previous marriage.  Children
live in California, mother lives in another state.
Father has received Welfare for the children in the state of California.
Father has re-married.  Can he still get Welfare for the children if he is

Would an unofficial seperation agreement worksheet signed by a notary be
considered valid and enforcable by the court?  The document having in bold
letters "This Is An Unofficial Worksheet".

My friend is trying to finalize her divorce after no action on the case
in more than 5 years. All custody and financial issues were ordered
several years ago, and all that remains is the final judgment. The case
is listed as active on the court's web site, but one court clerk says

Forty-something male here. Just concluded a 3.5 year divorce battle.
The ex lied in court repeatedly, took a case which should have been no
longer than 6 months, and dragged it out for over 3 years. I got
screwed by the judge, lost my house and most of my assets, custody of

Man for a man I have been a bawling fool.  The water works have been
unending.  I look at my kids and I cry.  I keep trying to bargain with my
wife and she shuts me down without shedding a tear.  I cry - outwardly
sobbing.  You know what though?  While I am doing it I know I am ...

http://www.anagramgenius.com/archive/fat-arsed-women.html
But it made me feel *much* better!
Please, pass on the link to your friends.
Mick.

I think we will see this legal in some states over the next few years.
So what will eventually happen in society? Well what eventually happaned
has already happened. Teenagers now days if you were to aks them if
being gay is ok and their anwer will most likely be yes or its their

Poll on your divorce: How much was your lawyer bill?
Details on my divorce:
o Mediator
o Uncontested