Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / October 2005

Hello again everybody-
Been a few weeks since my first post here. It's also been one HELL of a ride
since then.
First of all, I'd like to sincerely thank everyone who posted replies and

My wife has the marital home until our divorce is finalized...the judge
ordered her to pay the notes..I don't want the mortgage from the first
home to interfere  with my chances of getting a second place to live...I
don't have an attorney(can't afford)...can anyone give me advice on ...

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I'll post more details later, but I just wanted to get the ball rolling...   
My wife and I have been together for six years. I have never really been
attracted to my wife, and I've never been with another woman. I've been
so scared of hurting her that I have basically resigned ...

I want to get as much of my financial and other legal documentation put
together prior to seeing a solicitor about divorce proceedings (here in
the UK). What type of information should I gather together? Obviously
bank statements, paystubs, etc. Anything else? How far back do I need

I just got a ss statement.  My STBX dropped the bomb back in June and now
Oct. we still haven;t filed although it will happen at some time.  We have
been married 9 years last June.  At first I thought it ok that she get some
of my SS monies but now I think that would suck.  If I ...

It is relatively easy to drug test through hair samples. Samples may be
taken in court and given to the judge to mail the kit in. See dadslawyer.com

My feeling for the reason men or women cheat are the same. The
EXCITEMENT to feel wanted or appreciated.

In our settlement I got both houses, the stbx got all the cash and
retirement funds. But one house is in her name, solely for income tax
purposes. Now it looks like the bank is going to want me to requalify
for that mortgage even though the stbx has never made a single mortgage

I am just so frustrated I need to vent here.
My wife is rather "emotionles" at least to me. I cant seem to get her
to talk to me about things I want to talk about.
To make a long story short, she never wants sex and only has it

I'm looking for tips on how to tell my wife I want out of our marriage.
We've been married almost eight years with no kids.  We met in
college, she was a freshman and I was a senior.  We used to be good
together but for the last year and a half we grown so far apart.  I do

  I hadn't posted in a while.  Yesterday the *&%^ hit the fan.
 I received a copy of my wife's attorney's letter to the local
 Sheriff asking me to come pick up the divorce petition, or
 after 10 days, to serve me at home.  Well I figured, let them

So my marriage is on the rocks and prolly won't last till the end of
the month.  We live on a boat.  Because it's damn near impossible to
get a loan for an older boat her mom re-fied her house, bought the boat
outright.  We make monthly payments out of wife's checking account

So now, as you all know, I am in this position where I
have effectively lost the kids.  People say to me on
here - they may well see sense and return to you when
they leave their mother.  This may be right but this is