Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / October 2005

Ceremonies to Move Molecular Structures About and Alter the Land, Sky,
and Sea Scape.
Not only will we erase our negative markups on our karmatic records,
but we will also get my children to do special jobs for us.

I am considering buying wife out of my house if we go forward with
divorce.  i had figured id pay her the equity less 6% of appraised
value.  but someone told me it should be closer to 10%.  Is there a
standard of some kind that I can use?    Why would it be 10% and not

God / The Lord Shakamuni Eternal Buddha / Matreya The Creator Buddha /
Kuon Ganjo Nyorai The Original one and Only Buddha, except for some of
my kids, And The Mandala Body Guy aka, the G O D Guy, came into this
life as John Francis Ayres with total and complete loss of memory

Wow,
I have had an incredible 60 day affair that completely took me out of the
divorce game.  I added a mess to my mess.  I am now taking inventory of the
whole sick mess that that was.  I got an armfull of books on addictive

I am new here and new to being divorced. I am looking for anyone who
could help me. After being in a marriage for fourteen years, my husband
up and left me and our two daughters with less than two days notice and
moved to another part of the country.

My husband has been drawing money out of our joint checking
account.........too much money........... some checks for bills may
bounce in a week.  How does it work to freeze an account?
We have some things that are automatically deducted and

Life after Passing - About My Processing Center - The Providence Center
Hi,
I thought I'd say a little bit about my processing center, also known
as the Providence Center. It also goes by a few other names, the

All,
I'm the divorced father of three, 9 to 3 yeears of age, going on three
years now. I've since remarried and have had another child.  My ex has
90% custody of our children.  My CS was about 2200 a month but I tried

Sitting here with him.  He's on his computer, and I'm on mine at the same
table.  We just finished take out for dinner.  Idle chit chat about stuff.
It's uncomfortable at times, but then again it's not.
What a freegin' head game this is.  I *am* glad that he moved into the other

There was one incredible one page website that dealth with the stages a
marraige dies and how the end works out.  Anyone know it?  I really want to
reference it again -
Thanks

The following article appeared in a leading national business
newspaper:
Straight talk and happy talk--cheerful words about 'good divorce' can't
obscure reality  WSJ, 10/21/2005

STBX just got home from some errands.  `Heard stomping back and forth
upstairs.  `Went up there (expecting to see cats doing something silly) and
found him moving into the spare room.
This is for the best.  But?  It hurts.  For f.ck's sake.  It hurts.

killed himself two days ago.
Was he divorced?
Yes.
Fifteen years ago.

About a month ago I got a 2 a.m. phone call from a man asking for my
son-in-law, who doesn't live here, so I immediately was suspicious. Man
told me his name and finally bluted out that my sil likes to mess
around with 14-year-olds, that he just found out about it from his

I pop in on occasion, but I will give a quick synopsis of my story:
I separated in 1995 due to spousal abuse (he sent me to the emergency room),
but because I couldn't find him and when I did the attorney stalled, the
divorce wasn't final until 1999.  I thought 1999 would be the ...