Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / January 2006

LiveLoveLaugh was telling us the sob story about how her husband was bringing
home liquor and after he would leave she would search the house for it and dump
it down the sink.
LOL!

Just interested in responses.
DD1 yesterday said to me, "I'm really sorry that we've never sent you
anything for your birthday or for Christmas.  It's just that we're so
busy getting things for our family that we haven't had time.  Not that

So, he punched me in the face.  I dealt with that.  Then he moved out.
Okay.  Then he took twenty-something dollars that was left in our checking
account and closed it.  That was a tad bit on the "small" side, but
okay-fine.

Yes, just as the subject says.  Big basket of goodies arrived Friday from
one of STBX's reps.  I came home from work tonight and opened it up and went
for a chocolate covered graham cracker.  He didn't like that.  He said it
was his basket "as of Sept. 30th when he filed".  So, I ...

I'm in the middle of a divorce with a husband who I had to have legally
served to get a divorce to begin with. I've been the breadwinner and
the stressed out one in the marriage with a lot of pressure to deal
with without the help to begin a family that I had always wanted. After

California:
So I check the mail yesterday and find a "Notice of entry of
judgement."  It says I am "notified that the following judgement was
entered"  and then it has some boxes and "dissolution" is checked.

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Hello all, I enjoyed reading some of your posts, although there are so
many I can not get through them all.  However I have a hard last couple
of months, I am going through my first divorce to the man I thought I
would love for the rest of my life, but doesnt everyone feel that way

At least I followed my instincts and didn't rush things.  I honestly
think it would have spooked her.  "She" showed up again tonight and sat
by me again.  If I had any doubts before, they're gone now.  Sitting
with her and talking felt ... well, the best word is "nice"  I found

On New Years Day my husband was loving and kind, we made love and he
told me serveral times during the day how wonderful the next year
together was going to be.  He left to go to work 3rd shift.  I left him
a love note, and woke to find one left for me from him.

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bye

my 11 year old daughter has a competition & my stbx tells her dad is coming
to see her perform. the STBX wont take my calls  & I have no idea where or
when the competition is. she told me she would call me at 2:30 on Saturday
when she got there.  competition lasts 2 days...  I see ...

Found this
http://www.divorcedfathers.org/radio.html
Its a call-in radio show and there are recordings of the
show available online.

I really dont understand how its possible to have a good healthy
relationship with a young child with zero contact with the STBX. I suppose
court ordered visitation schedule with the exchange at a police station is
about the only option. is that really a healthy option for the kids? ...

My parents divorced over 10 years ago, but situations because of the
divorce still come up. Many times I feel like I'm in the middle (I had
never felt it was my fault for the divorce, but now I feel like the
fighting has a lot to do with me). When I started college my parents