Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / January 2006

I warned you Annette but you had to keep on posting at Alt.Support
Depression.
LOA is Annette June Henderson.  
I'm the idiot who made the mistake of leaving my family, getting

Two cavemen where strolling threw the woods looking for wild boars when
from a distance they spotted two attractive cavewomen engaged in #@%*.
The first caveman was sickened by what he saw and abruptly left in
utter disgust. The second caveman stayed and watched and found he

Yep!
This doesn't suprise me a bit!
He's done this for months on end  at my old sitar group, earning himself
quite a reputation with everyone (including the owner of that group, along

In reading about custody arrangements, I came across one referred to as
bird's nest custody.  The intent being that the parents take turns living in
the primary residence (e.g., weekly rotation) but the children stay in the
same home.  This seems like the least disruptive approach ...

who asks for advice then doesn't take it.  i have a buddy who is going thru
a divorce and continually asks for advice and never listens to what i tell
him and hates it when i give him the "I told you so" phrase.  the most
recent being that the woman he is divorcing had use of a ...

just kind of thinking "outloud" here, & looking for some opinions...
I am still contemplating a move.. i am from the northeast area & have been
living in Indiana for the past 10 years, my divorce isnt final. my kids are
16 & 11 & dont have much interest in hanging out with old dad.. ...

a question to you people who have been on your second (or more) chapter of
your life for  some time now...
The first time around it was my stbx that "caught" me. I think back  in the
late 80's that was about the norm, I mean things were probably pretty equal,

Going to file for divorce soon.
I am in CA.
We have been married a little over 5 years.
Two kids (both under the age of 3).

My son flies away back to college tomorrow morning.
It was a wonderful visit.
I'm so proud of him... but i gonna miss him....
next year i'm gonna grow my hair longer than his.

I'm not getting any posts at all (since yesterday)
has there been a server problem or whut?!???

And it looks pretty good, this 2006.
Merry Happy's to you all.  May your 2006 be as better than your 2005, as
your 2005 was over your 2004.
To all of you walking into this, hang in ... it *does* get better.  I

I have been looking here for a few weeks now and, I finally got up the
courage  to ask a question.
About a year ago my husband met a woman on line. He then went to visit
this person who lives across the country (He lied and said he was seeing

Joy wrote:

As I start to regain my balance after 7 months of doing the divorce roller
coaster I thought it would be good to look back at what worked for me -
Getting a great therapist right at the onset - and one who had been through
a divorce - this is key.

Even though the ex had the herpes I'm clean!  Just got back blood tests
for that and tests for HPV and everything else.
I'm as clean as possible to verify with current medical testing !
Including the ol' Q-tip insertion into Mr. Happy.