Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / June 2006

My wife and I are in the beginning of divorce (initial pleadings
filed). Her demands, as well as mine, frankly, are unreasonable.
We agreed to talk tomorrow, at whilch point I would like to propose a
sensible-compromise. I want to know of negotiating techniques that

I don't really know how this works, but here goes.  I lived with my
husband for 9 years before we decided to get married, as the subject
lin indicates that was the wrong thing to do.  He said he made a
mistake and left.  That was 2 weeks ago.

The kids are great, life is great... but the ex is getting to be a
total control freak. We do our own child support negotiations but I'm
beginning to think that sucks. This last month I ended up giving her
and the kids 75% of my disposable income for child support and

An on and off again poster to this news group has really lost it.
please check out her sick and demented emails here....
www.geocities.com/dkr54oval/deb.html
She can be emailed at:  justmeoverhere@msn.com

I have been living in the United States (TN) for 1 year. I came here
through an F1 Student Visa while my husband and children on the F2
Visa.  I have realized it has become impossible to live toghether
anymore, so I asked my husband for divorce. Being muslim divorce is

My son will soon be finishing school. Don't know if he'll be attending
post secondary, but I doubt it. I am receiving support payments for him
up until this date. Our S.and C. order/agreement, which was ordered in
1987, then updated in 1994 was completed in the Ontario Court

I have been married for a very long time (almost 20 years), my husband
is disabled, and getting worse with each passing day.  He is in pain
pretty well every day of his life and his additude it mean.
I am just about at my wits end.  Just tonight he said when our daughter

Can you please clarify the meaning of the following guideline from the divorce FAQ
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This guideline provides that the husband's spousal support is to be 40% of his
net monthly income, reduced by one-half of the wife's net monthly income.

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them has never been easier.
Notice I didn't say to use his method to do this (your opinion of his method
is separate from this), but instead to just use HIM.  This is very easy to

Feeling philosophical...
I stood there and took a vow to never leave her, never betray her, till
death do us part.
She took the same vow.

If you have a brain, then you know damn well that the U.S. is a society
on a STEEP decline.
The feminization aspect the author below speaks of is a very large
symptom of this decline, and part of the overall trend towards

I think in many cases it can, and does .
Consider:
'I found it difficult to be interested in sex. He would ask, I would
often refuse, he would be frustrated and angry, I would be hurt and we

My father in laws wife was getting email messages from someone she had never
met,implying he wanted to have an affair with her. She had cheated before
and was looking to do it agian as she was divorcing my father in law. 200
messages later this guys wife found out about them. ...

I have recently been told that (at least in Ontario) if you have been
separated for 10 years then the marriage can be dissolved - which would
be less hassle and less costly then going through the regular process
of divorce. Has anyone heard of this?

Hi...looking for stories from people who've used dating coaches. I'm
thinking about hiring one myself....What was the experience like? How did
you find a coach? Did it help? Would you recommend it?
I'm a single guy, but I'm interested in hearing from women who've used