Family Forum / Marriage / Marriage / January 2006

My woman I know confided in me that she it NOT attracted to her husband
anymore, and that she told him.  He was really hurt.  Mind you,  she
does not want to split up. But she had to be honest.
How should she handle this now?

My husband has problems getting an erection.  Nothing new, he's had
this problem since I met him, and it seems to get better and worse
different times of the year.  He has been to a doctor and there dont
seem to be any real physical problems according to the doctor.  The

If you could give only ONE piece of advice to a young couple just
setting out in married life what would it be? (Please, could only one
person say, 'Don't do it'!)
Regards,

I just woke up and when I went to the bathroom I found some semen in
my vagina.  I have not been with a man in months.  How can this
happen?
Marge

Hello, I'm 29 years old and have been married for 3 years. We have a
beautiful 2 year old son whom we both adore. We're originally from
Spain but for the last 2 years  we have been living in New York. Sorry
about the long email, but it can't be told in a few words.

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Modified Monogamy*
An Acknowledgement That The Modern Marriage Contract Defies Human Nature
For the uninitiated and the rest who are hopelessly naive, what I am about
to say is going to come as quite a shock.

I've lurked around the newsgroups for about two weeks and I know that
these things I'm going to talk about aren't by anyway unique to me.
With that in mind here's the situation.
My Wife and I have been married for five years, we have two great kids,

Im 32, male, married for 8 years, together for 10 years.
I first met my wife at university in 1995 when I was 21, the same time
that I was having relationship difficulties with my ex-girlfriend.
The history of my ex-girlfriend who walked. I first met her in 1992 at

I came across this group while browsing, and thought it might be a good
thing.
I have been married less than four months now, and at times I think I
might tear my hair out because of DH.  I love him dearly and I KNOW he

Read a thread on another board, that claims that as soon as elderly men
in their 70's and 80's begin to get sick, the wife puts them in a
nursing home and won't take care of them or stick by them for the end
times.  It seems they refuse take hubby back from the hospital or care

Did you see this item in the news today:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/hsn/20060125/hl_hsn/sciencespotsnewcauseofchronicpain
This makes sense to me - kind of like things get stuck in the "on"
position.

I have several women who I know who can't stand to be away from their
husband or boyfriend for more than an hour at a time. I'm not saying men
can't be this way but it happens to be only women I know that act this
way. There must be constant phone calls, text messages, discussion ...

We talked more about the state of my marriage today.
He said that he sees 4 options.
1)  Changing nothing and continuing as we are.
2)  Work on not caring about the things DH says and