Family Forum / Marriage / Marriage / April 2006

This is my first post to this group.
I will try to describe the problem I have.
I was married the first time for 7 years, we got divorced and a few
years later, I got remarried.

Okay, once again the number of posts about me and my situation is
overwhelming.  I have answered a number of them individually, but will
never finish if I keep doing that.  In addition, a number of them are
from a couple of people who have in my mind crossed the line from

just when I thought he had stooped low enough...
ok so if you read my post titled Liars.. you will know the whole story....
but the continuing story is this...
for the last 3 or 4 days we have been getting no mail delivered to our

I got married in June of 2005. My wife is a Japanese and my family is
of chinese descent, but they have moved to Singapore as little kids.
Myself am born and raised in Singapore.
We stayed with our parents when we moved back from the US last June,

Tried to discuss my "quickness" problem with my wife. She just
basically sat there, did not respond much. Said we always talk
incircles when we talk about it. I asked her if she would work on the

'Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,

dear all...i got married recently and its been three months since..me
and my wife had been lovers for a 6 months before we got
married...since then i noticed that she had kinda anger problem..but i
beleived that i can be with her and we can make everything up..

37 yrs old married man for 7 yrs with now 31 yrs old no children,
misabortion did DNC in the 1st 3 months of pregnancy. Bad DNC, she
suffered polycystic few yrs later. The trainee docs managed to take
them out leaving ugly scars and trauma.

I was bewildered with the posts that this person, John Francis Ayres,
has been leaving on here. These posts look like vruses. Are there any
moderators on here? If so, can you please delete these strange
offensive posts?

I thought this might be an interesting thread to start, and relevant to
Ted!
I just wrote in another post:
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First I would like to apologize.  I'm overwhelmed
by the shear volume of replies, and as I go through
them, there are so many that I would like to comment
on at least parts of, that I just don't have time to.  So

Lost your post to me earlier.  Can't remember which thread it was in.
I'm doing... well... I've had better days.  I've had to increase the
Neurontin again, and the pain has cranked up some nonetheless.  We didn't
MRI the hips, but I can tell there is arthritis there, too.... or ...

Not sure if this is the right place to be posting, but
alt.support.domestic-violence seems a little dead these days.
I am in an abusive marriage.  We've been together for 10 years - he's
been hitting me for two.  Not just hitting.  Choking, kicking,

I have been married since 1998. Our daughter is almost 3. I have not
been intimate with my wife in almost 3 years. I am constantly rejected.
I have had it. After a few beers I confronted her and asked why she
married me. Her answer was "because you loved me". She has told me to

My wife and I just exchanged emails with a mutual friend we haven't
heard from in awhile.  One of the things my wife said in her note (we
carboned each other) was:  "Ted is busy - seems to have a need to fill
every evening with something."  I know she's not referring to when I'm