Family Forum / Marriage / Marriage / September 2006

With some events, there is *no* "making it right",
since it's a case of irretrievably breaking trust
and intimacy.
Mind you, sometimes it seems the only honorable

I have been married for 3 years now.  My husband is completely addicted
to porn.  We use to watch it together once upon a time.  One morning
after a great night of what I thought was good sex.  I awoke one
morning to find him in the living room watching his dvd, jacking off.

A month ago we celebrated our 40th wedding anniversary three days running.
(various activities -- an outdoor festival, musical, and boat cruise.)
It was so-so.
Yesterday was the last time for the indefinite future that we will be going

Okay,
here is my problem!
I'm a newly wed, been less than a month and well, I don't want to have
sex at all! He wants it pretty much all the time but I keep either

Well, first let me say that this is my first post to this usenet
group, my first post in a long time to ANY usenet group for that
matter, and it may be a little long, but I really need some input on
this matter and it really isn't something I can readily discuss with

It's hard to define exactly what is decency and what is indecency. It's
very subjective. For example, burping after a meal is considered quite
decent, even polite, in some countries and somewhat indecent in others.
Dictionary.com defines indecency as "offending against generally

I have been married twice...now divorced and dating.
I swore I would never marry again.
So I repeated the pattern and kept on drinking alot thinking that my new
girlfriend would never make me marry her............well she left me a

I am at a complete loss.  I don't know what to do and I feel like my
entire life is falling apart.
My husband and I have only been married for 5 months.  Before we got
married, while we were still dating, he went to Vegas with his friends

My fiancée and I are in full harmony with each other. We have the same
thinking. We have the ability to solve problems together and come to
compromise in case of disagreements. We know how to communicate
effectively and respect each others opinions. Putting love apart, we

My wife of 7 years and I have sex about once every 4 to 6 weeks.  She
says she does not have a sex drive but will masturbate at least once a
week.  She will also lie about it.  I don't understand if she does not
have a sex drive why she would masturbate.  And yes, she does have

Okay, I'm trying to figure out the best way to handle this:
During the summer, I was taking care of most of the household chores, with
the kids pitching in when I asked.  But, now that I am back to work too,
this needs to change a bit.

Hi everyone. am new to this site. am from Australia

Yeah, that's a contradiction, isn't it?
A year and half or so ago, I found out that my husband had been lying
to me about financial matters.  We had "our" stuff, then there was
"his" stuff and a little bit of "my" stuff.  I knew the score with our

I am new to this group. All are welcome to submit information to me. I
have been married to my loving husband for over 23 years. I know that
prayer has kept my husband and I loving one another. We fell in love
when we first laid eyes on one another. He was a blind date. After

Seems like she's been in Europe for AGES!!!!!!!
Can't wait to hear all about it when she returns :o)
Sure miss her posts!
Temily