Family Forum / Marriage / Marriage / September 2006

My fiancee and I met last fall/early-winter through an online dating
service.  I joined the service, really, just for fun.  Hook-ups, etc.
I didn't really expect to meet someone I care about.  I didn't expect,
either, to end up engaged to this 35 year-old, divorced mother of two.

This is sort of a long post...
I love my wife.
My wife and I are high school sweethearts.  we married in college and
had our first daughter.  After a couple of years of marriage, my wife

Just a question: Do you feel that we as a society have become too
focused on being politically correct, non politicall correct enough, or
just about right?  
--Brian

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Hi everybody. I'm going to marry soon but my fiancee is so anxious
about our love after marriage. The love between us is so strong that
other aspects of life after marriage seem to be unimportant. Is there
any way to protect our love as it is (or strengthen it) after marriage?

Yesterday was my birthday and my father didn't call.  I'm assuming he
forgot.  He did send me an email asking my opinion about an Ebay
auction, but didn't say anything about it being my birthday.
I can't imagine ever forgetting my son or daughters birthday.  Ever...

Hello, I am new to this board, and wish to thank anyone in advance who
has time to comment on my situation. Maybe I am being ridiculous about
this... at least my husband thinks so. I hope this post is on-topic for
this forum.

I am research scientist and my dad is Ayurveda doctor in India we have
use scientific knowledge to developed some of the exciting products for
sexual disfuction and erectile problems, premature ejection,loss of
sexual desires etc.

After months of therapy for both my wife and I we have reached a point
where we are no longer fighting about sex or other issues.  I had
become obsessed with our sex life and created a situation where she
felt nothing but pressure.  This killed her already low(er) libido.  My

My H told me last dec.4th that he wanted the big D after 10 years and 2
kids. The run down is He got in touch with a old girl friend from high
school on the computer. She doesn't live in the same country as us. It
started nice enough but then the sexal things started and i make ...

My husband and I have been married for a few years. I was never very
interested in sex - maybe I was too busy or maybe I just wasn't a
sexual person. We have always had sex regularly, I was just never too
enthusiastic about it.

I have always wondered what the consenses is on having a child to save
a marriage. Does it actually work, or is it a bunch of bologna?

Reason #47: no more peas-n-jello salad
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My wife and I have married for 10 years and we have now 3 children. That is
a good number, but no more. Our problem is my wife is against pills,
diaphragm or IUD. She agrees with condom, but I don't like it. What can we
do? Thank you in advance for any tips.

As I 've been finding out from observing relationships, both successful
and unsuccessful, and attempting to have one in my own life right now,
there are nine C's that are necessary for relationships that are
complete. These are: