Family Forum / Marriage / Marriage / December 2006

Good afternoon,
I am new to this page as I have found myself in a bit of a predicament.
I'm hoping that someone out there can empathize.   In August of this
year my boyfriend and I found out that I was pregnant.  We had been

I have two children, my 7-year-old daughter Lily and my 5-year-old son
Tom. One day during before Christmas, we finished dinner and left the
dishes stacked up at the kitchen sink. I decided to train my son Tom to
clean the dishes, but just as I started my wife stopped me. My wife is

Also, tonight I found some internet porn (pics of naked/suggsetive
posed girls on the internet). Now, it's not like my hubby never wants
to have
sex with me, we do it more often than not, but I'm wondering if I

Hey everyone, not only is it almost New Year's Eve, but it's Cal's
birthday.  Happy birthday, sweetie!
Lauri in WA

My wife and I have been married for over a year.  I've always valued
the sex in our relationship more than she, but now, after getting
pregnant, she has become completely uninterested I any type of sexual
relationship or even physical contact.   I know she's been feeling

hey there,
so, having serious intimacy problems in marriage.  My husband stopped
kissing me years ago.
Would it be selfish of me to leave with a child in the picture?

i married my wife in 99 because she was pregnant. it was a surprise
because i thought she was taking birth control pills. after six yrs of
struggling to stay together she asked me to leave. two months later
,maybe sooner ,she was dating someone. she expected me to try to win

Heres the background...
I was supposed to be taking her somewhere this morning and dropping her
off so she could go shopping and then picking her up later. Anyway, we
left the house 20 mins after the time she was supposed to be there and

I am uncertain whether I am happy in my marriage.  We were first (and
only) loves who dated for 7 years (since high school) and have been
married for 3 years.  My wife and I are very passive people and hardly
ever argue.  We don't have children.  We are both in our mid-to-late 20's.

Larry G. wrote:

O.K. Bill. Let's do it.
Bill in Co. wrote:

'For better or for worse' takes a lot of work
Examines the changing views of marriage and what institutions - such
as religious groups, government and businesses - are doing to
preserve it.

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Im 27 in a commited relationship from past 6 years. I dont know whether
to get married to my girl because of differences in nature. We can't
take each other on small issues but love each other very much. At
earlier years the days things were fine We use to ignore each other's

I really need some neutral advice on my current situation.  I have
asked many friends and family on what they think and they pretty much
always say the same things because they are somewhat biased since they
are MY friends and family.