Family Forum / Marriage / Marriage / February 2007

Should chores be shared between all members of the family--including
the man of the house?

I think I've fallen out of love.  My marriage is a year old.
It started with my wife getting on my case in a big way saying she
doubted my accounts of a relatively clean cut life after my first
marriage.  This went on for about six months, at which time I informed

Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the
iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage.  I don't mean
to
scare you, but many problems, when they either first show up or if

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if it is time to give up on your marriage?  Is there some kind of time
limit?  Or is there some critical behavior that is a deal breaker?
I wish I knew.  I keep hoping my marriage will weather the storm, but
it is becoming increasingly obvious to me that may never happen.  I

My wife is a SAHM and now that my youngest son has started
kindergarten in the mornings my wife seems to have a lot of time on
her hands. She however isn't doing a thing with it. In fact I am
finding that she is taking him to my sisters sometime in the afternoon

Valentine's Day is my favorite holiday to rant at.
Having suffered through far too many, I consider it
worse than all of my Thanksgivings (U.S. holiday) and
Christmas family get-togethers combined.

I am confused & really dont know what to do.  My husband a foreigner,
he is 58 and Im 38.  We have been married for about 4 yrs (his second
marriage), with one child & now living in Malaysia.  In yr 2005, I
found out that my husband had an affair with a lady in Jakarta. He met

Are you ready for this???
I am emotionally confused. I have been married for 16 years and live
with a wife who drinks every day and every night after she gets home.
Usually 2 beers and 2 big glasses of wine. I have confronted her with

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Whether or not it should be done, is certainly up for debate. Whether or not
it can be done, appears to be have been already answered....at least in
part(s) of the US.....

I am 25 year old guy. I got marry with my beloved on 28 May 2006 Name
is Rani Rawat. We stay together 4 months. Having good sexual relation
with her. But Now I am in Abroad Job for two years. She is alone now
feeling lonly abslutly. I am also feeling very upset and depress that

Divorce has become the norm in our Society, As a product of
parents that divorced early on I can see what an ill effect it has had
on my life. I often wondered why my parents didn't stay together.
Growing up in the 80"s I was the "latch key kid" poster child.

I'm looking for suggestions on the mechanics of how to separate after 2
decades or marriage with 3 young teens in the home and a double income
scenario where finances are in order.  I am realizing I can't change to meet
her needs and expectations, it is my shortcomings to be fair ...

After 15 years of marriage, and two children, my wife says that she
wants a trail-seperation. She blames it on the fact that in the first
few years (maybe 5) I used to come home late, usually from hanging out
with the guys at bars,etc. She said that that ruined the marriage and

Marriage is not easy it is a lot of work it takes a lifetime of
commitment I think people today don't work at marriage hard enough
they tend to give up when the going gets rough . We had problems and
still do life is not easy we joined marriage encounter and that helped