Family Forum / Marriage / Marriage / August 2007

(the story I'm about to relate is entirely true...)
My wife and I have been married for about 10 years now, no kids.  I met her
on the internet about 12 years ago, we knew each other for about 6 months
before we met in real life, we traveled back and forth for about a year, and

I am glad i came across this group searcing for some relationship
advice.I have read through lots of posts and have found good advice
from members.
Heres my question i was married for  5 years we have 2 kids one

Every time I get settled into the idea that he's NOT going to do
anything, that he doesn't want to change, that he'd rather continue to
live in the same unhealthy way than to work with me on our marriage -
he apologizes.

A relationship that is based on deception requires ever-greater
deception and violence
in order to sustain. Indeed it becomes a cancer upon the civilization,
and family life,

Hey ML, what ISP are you using? Your posts aren't coming through to me at
all on NIN. (I'm pretty sure I haven't inadvertently killfiled you!)
Is anyone else not seeing her posts except when they are quoted?
(If ML responds could someone please quote her for me?)

Here is the situation:
I just found out - through an interesting new feature available on the
web - that he is running searches that look like this:
- (name of city he's in) girls; bars; nightclub, etc...

I'm 47 yrs. old.  My husband and I are both in our third marriage.
We've been married 4 yrs.  We both have 2 grown children, one boy and
one girl each.  My son and I moved in with my husband when my son was
in high school and my daughter was away at college.  At first

My ex husband and i divorced in 2000..we got married when i was 18 and
he was 26..he had me brainwashed about many things including sucking
me into islam..in the divorced he coerced me and got custody of our
two kids..they've been with me since 2000..he hasn't contacted me

i just been wonderin why do teenage get married at a young age

I don't want my kids eating this!
http://youtube.com/watch?v=sYfy0EAgDCY
If you are as outraged by this as I am, write/email/call you state and
federal legistlators and demand that they ban this from continuing.

I dont know where to start. But I need help. I am totally lost and am
on a verge of a breakdown.
So, I have been married to this person I call my husband for the last
9 years after dating for 2 yrs. His parents never wanted us to marry

You expressed an interest on what happened with my planned weekend
with wife and stepsons.
Well in a nutshell, it was an incredible evening.
I drank massive amouts of alcohol and we were out partying in downtown

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It appears I am back and out from hiding...
Just looking for the usual advice.
This is mainly for the guys, out of maybe personal experience or what they'd
want, and for the ladies, what you have done.

My only regret that, being Monday, he has to work. Alas, our anniversary
plans may be simple since I have to get 2 out of 4 people to the docs office
for various minor ailments. It is hard to dream up an anniversary
celebration or dinner or something when your head is pounding ...